As you age, you lose patience.
That’s both bad and good.
Bad because young guys will beat you in most things.
More energy means more girls, more wins, more fun, and higher goals reached.
But when life stops being new and becomes easy to read, you’ll know what to do.
And where to put your time and effort.
That’s why age is also a gift:
Because you spot patterns and know when to push forward or when to walk away without a care.
That’s both bad and good.
Bad because young guys will beat you in most things.
More energy means more girls, more wins, more fun, and higher goals reached.
But when life stops being new and becomes easy to read, you’ll know what to do.
And where to put your time and effort.
That’s why age is also a gift:
Because you spot patterns and know when to push forward or when to walk away without a care.
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Girls who like you want to make you happy, so you’ll pick them.
Girls who don’t like you don’t want to make you happy, because they don’t care.
That’s all it is.
Girls who don’t like you don’t want to make you happy, because they don’t care.
That’s all it is.
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You may think girls have it easy, but what you missed is that guys are the main players in this video game called life.
Look at what young girls talk about with each other: "My man is smarter, yeah but mine is set to get his dad’s company, yeah but mine is funnier, yeah but mine has abs…"
Look at what old women say: "My man messed up sometimes but always worked hard, mine was drunk and distant but made me feel things, mine was always broke but did hard work so I saw him as a man"
Men live.
Women talk about it.
Look at what young girls talk about with each other: "My man is smarter, yeah but mine is set to get his dad’s company, yeah but mine is funnier, yeah but mine has abs…"
Look at what old women say: "My man messed up sometimes but always worked hard, mine was drunk and distant but made me feel things, mine was always broke but did hard work so I saw him as a man"
Men live.
Women talk about it.
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If you’ve ever wanted a "stay at home girlfriend", I know you’re hurting inside and I hope that thing ends fast so your bank can heal, you wake up and get why you don’t give wife perks to girlfriends
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The best use of game for high-achievers is to avoid social problems
✅ No more wasting time crushing on a girl who doesn’t know you exist
✅ No more guilt from failed talks
✅ No more feeling like you’re missing life
✅ No more being used by "friends"
✅ No more trying to make everyone happy
✅ Less chance of divorce (and losing half your stuff)
✅ No boring bedroom if you marry
✅ No more wasting time crushing on a girl who doesn’t know you exist
✅ No more guilt from failed talks
✅ No more feeling like you’re missing life
✅ No more being used by "friends"
✅ No more trying to make everyone happy
✅ Less chance of divorce (and losing half your stuff)
✅ No boring bedroom if you marry
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On dating apps, a great way to lower the number of flakes is to have a phone call before meeting
Extra perks:
• You get a feel for the vibe, and if it’s dull you can cancel
• You already feel familiar, it’s like a second date
Extra perks:
• You get a feel for the vibe, and if it’s dull you can cancel
• You already feel familiar, it’s like a second date
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If a girl didn’t want you from 18-25,
then she’s lying when she says she loves you at 26+
Remember that!
then she’s lying when she says she loves you at 26+
Remember that!
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First rp moment:
Girls are not the sweet angels you thought. They’ll lie on purpose to keep you around as a backup plan.
Second rp moment:
Girls don’t give thanks. If you give them everything, they’ll still feel like it’s their right to complain.
Girls are not the sweet angels you thought. They’ll lie on purpose to keep you around as a backup plan.
Second rp moment:
Girls don’t give thanks. If you give them everything, they’ll still feel like it’s their right to complain.
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Never fight for a girl.
If you do and win, she still sees herself above you… so she can’t really love you.
It’s a setup you lose.
If you do and win, she still sees herself above you… so she can’t really love you.
It’s a setup you lose.
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Judge girls in your head, not out loud.
Saying it does nothing.
If you don’t like something about her, go get a girl you like more.
Saying it does nothing.
If you don’t like something about her, go get a girl you like more.
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Loser: all girls only care about money and use people
Winner: most girls I know are fun, soft, and follow a man’s lead
It’s not about the girls, it’s about the guy.
Winner: most girls I know are fun, soft, and follow a man’s lead
It’s not about the girls, it’s about the guy.
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Step 1: be someone of value
Step 2: have lots of options
Step 3: know how attraction works
Step 4: build deep bonds
Girls are born at step 3
You start at step 0
Get to work!
Step 2: have lots of options
Step 3: know how attraction works
Step 4: build deep bonds
Girls are born at step 3
You start at step 0
Get to work!
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Me a decade ago:
She showed up to my last-minute party, sat by my side, laughed at all my jokes, stayed until the end, even laid next to me in bed before asking for a ride home… but I wasn’t sure if she liked me.
Me today:
She’s into me. She literally pointed her back at me.
She showed up to my last-minute party, sat by my side, laughed at all my jokes, stayed until the end, even laid next to me in bed before asking for a ride home… but I wasn’t sure if she liked me.
Me today:
She’s into me. She literally pointed her back at me.
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If you’re a ambitious young guy who wants a serious relationship,
It’s smarter to date either a rich girl or a girl who can fit into a new social class fast.
1. Girl from a rich background
Avoid if she expects you to pay for everything even though she’s used to "expensive" things and you’re still grinding.
This often happens if you're both young but she was born rich and you weren’t.
They’re great if you’re already rich and want a younger partner who can match your lifestyle: passport ready, has visas, maybe speaks 2 or 3 languages, and doesn’t feel like a financial drain (because your lifestyle is already pricey).
2. Girl from a normal or poor background who adapts well
These girls are usually loyal, but if you make it and she can’t get used to the new life, she’ll always feel left out and jealous.
A lot of women who supported men early and got left behind when the guy got rich say he switched up out of lust,
But many times, she just couldn’t grow into the lifestyle:
❌ He wants to propose at the top of the Empire State, but she doesn’t even have a visa… 2-year wait.
❌ He wants to move to Portugal for a couple months and go with the flow but she’s a “strong woman” who won’t let him pay and works an office job she can’t leave (unlike a remote one).
❌ He takes her to a fancy dinner with his global friends but she can’t speak another language, so he has to translate the whole time.
Helping her adjust is kind and sometimes fun, but no matter how much you support her, she’s got to put in effort too, and not every girl is ready for that.
🧔♂️: Yes babe, if you learn English, I’ll book a trip to NYC and maybe London next year. 👩🏻: Yay, sounds good!
*then she loses her Duolingo streak, watches Netflix in Spanish and forgets to find a language class.
It’s smarter to date either a rich girl or a girl who can fit into a new social class fast.
1. Girl from a rich background
Avoid if she expects you to pay for everything even though she’s used to "expensive" things and you’re still grinding.
This often happens if you're both young but she was born rich and you weren’t.
They’re great if you’re already rich and want a younger partner who can match your lifestyle: passport ready, has visas, maybe speaks 2 or 3 languages, and doesn’t feel like a financial drain (because your lifestyle is already pricey).
2. Girl from a normal or poor background who adapts well
These girls are usually loyal, but if you make it and she can’t get used to the new life, she’ll always feel left out and jealous.
A lot of women who supported men early and got left behind when the guy got rich say he switched up out of lust,
But many times, she just couldn’t grow into the lifestyle:
❌ He wants to propose at the top of the Empire State, but she doesn’t even have a visa… 2-year wait.
❌ He wants to move to Portugal for a couple months and go with the flow but she’s a “strong woman” who won’t let him pay and works an office job she can’t leave (unlike a remote one).
❌ He takes her to a fancy dinner with his global friends but she can’t speak another language, so he has to translate the whole time.
Helping her adjust is kind and sometimes fun, but no matter how much you support her, she’s got to put in effort too, and not every girl is ready for that.
🧔♂️: Yes babe, if you learn English, I’ll book a trip to NYC and maybe London next year. 👩🏻: Yay, sounds good!
*then she loses her Duolingo streak, watches Netflix in Spanish and forgets to find a language class.
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The “ride or die” dream sounds good until you realize the girls who date broke, weird, awkward guys… aren’t usually models.
Most of the time, the girls you get when you’re struggling aren’t the same girls you want once you’ve made it.
Most of the time, the girls you get when you’re struggling aren’t the same girls you want once you’ve made it.
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How to get a girl talking: share random details.
Don’t just answer plainly, give more info, you never know what she’ll find interesting.
She says she’s from X place?
Don’t just say you’ve been there twice.
Say you’ve been there twice, once because of X and the second time for Y, and you noticed Z while you were there.
Give her something to ask about.
Don’t just answer plainly, give more info, you never know what she’ll find interesting.
She says she’s from X place?
Don’t just say you’ve been there twice.
Say you’ve been there twice, once because of X and the second time for Y, and you noticed Z while you were there.
Give her something to ask about.
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Modern dating is tough because for the first time, people expect their partner to play all roles:
✅ Wife
✅ Mom of your kids
✅ Best friend
✅ Best sex ever
✅ Therapist
✅ Constant romance
✅ Caregiver
✅ Partner in your mission
That’s a lot for one person.
But it makes sense, we’re higher on Maslow’s pyramid now.
Instead of marrying for survival, we want marriage to complete us.
And that’s way harder.
In the past, people married because her dad had land, she could have babies, and he had strength and weapons.
Together, survival was easier.
She played wife and mom, but side chicks were different girls.
His best friend was someone else.
His purpose partner wasn’t her.
As we chase meaning and live more alone, we’ll keep expecting more from one person.
✅ Wife
✅ Mom of your kids
✅ Best friend
✅ Best sex ever
✅ Therapist
✅ Constant romance
✅ Caregiver
✅ Partner in your mission
That’s a lot for one person.
But it makes sense, we’re higher on Maslow’s pyramid now.
Instead of marrying for survival, we want marriage to complete us.
And that’s way harder.
In the past, people married because her dad had land, she could have babies, and he had strength and weapons.
Together, survival was easier.
She played wife and mom, but side chicks were different girls.
His best friend was someone else.
His purpose partner wasn’t her.
As we chase meaning and live more alone, we’ll keep expecting more from one person.
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Paying for drinks or dinner is part of the cost of seeing women.
Paying for her nails, hair, nice outfits, or a gift is investing in her.
Paying her bills is just not smart.
"Investing" in her doesn’t mean she’ll love you more.
It means you’ll care more about her.
The idea is if she’s a good woman and you want to care about her, you can by giving.
But if she doesn’t care about you, giving won’t make her start to care.
Paying for her nails, hair, nice outfits, or a gift is investing in her.
Paying her bills is just not smart.
"Investing" in her doesn’t mean she’ll love you more.
It means you’ll care more about her.
The idea is if she’s a good woman and you want to care about her, you can by giving.
But if she doesn’t care about you, giving won’t make her start to care.
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If you don’t make some RULES, it’s easy to lose control and mess things up:
-Only meet her once a week
-Don’t stay the night
-No presents
Unless you want her to get confused and feel hurt.
(Not talking about LTR)
-Only meet her once a week
-Don’t stay the night
-No presents
Unless you want her to get confused and feel hurt.
(Not talking about LTR)
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Struggling with a girl, your purpose, or inner game?
Drop your biggest question, I’ll reply to a few today.
Drop your biggest question, I’ll reply to a few today.
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