Art of Manners v2021.01.pdf
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Lessons from the Prophet (saw)
in the Art of Influence. v2021.01
By Shaykh Majed Mahmoud
Al-Maghrib Institute
in the Art of Influence. v2021.01
By Shaykh Majed Mahmoud
Al-Maghrib Institute
Civil news: changes to mortgage debt in eligibility calculations - GOV.UK
https://www.gov.uk/government/news/civil-news-changes-to-mortgage-debt-in-eligibility-calculations
https://www.gov.uk/government/news/civil-news-changes-to-mortgage-debt-in-eligibility-calculations
GOV.UK
Civil news: changes to mortgage debt in eligibility calculations
The mortgage cap has now been removed as part of wider changes to assessing civil legal aid eligibility.
Top tips for understanding your teenager in the ‘new normal’ - BBC Bitesize
https://www.bbc.co.uk/bitesize/articles/zctjkty
https://www.bbc.co.uk/bitesize/articles/zctjkty
BBC Bitesize
Top tips for understanding your teenager in the ‘new normal’
Teenager behaviour can be unpredictable and difficult to understand for parents. The additional stress caused by the pandemic may make emotional states even more extreme or in some cases may cause hidden anxieties.
Muslim funeral guide - North Lincolnshire.pdf
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Muslim funeral service guide - North Lincolnshire
https://www.nlg.nhs.uk/content/uploads/2017/06/Muslim-funeral-guide-1.pdf
https://www.nlg.nhs.uk/content/uploads/2017/06/Muslim-funeral-guide-1.pdf
Eternal Gardens Funeral Guide - London.pdf
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Eternal Gardens funeral guide
https://eternalgardens.org.uk/funeral-guide
Funeral service (South London)
Muslims Funeral Services
https://www.mfs.org.uk
Mitcham
#death #funeral
https://eternalgardens.org.uk/funeral-guide
Funeral service (South London)
Muslims Funeral Services
https://www.mfs.org.uk
Mitcham
#death #funeral
Garden of Peace Funeral Service v.2020 B04-GOP.pdf
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Gardens of Peace
https://gardens-of-peace.org.uk/funeral-service
Hainault
Funeral service (East London)
http://quwwatulislam.org/services/burial
Forest Gate
https://minhajwelfare.org/contact
Forest Gate
Greater London
https://muslimburialcare.com
Hainault
East London coroner / pathologist
https://www.walthamforest.gov.uk/content/mortuary
#death #funeral
Knowledge Hub UK
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https://gardens-of-peace.org.uk/funeral-service
Hainault
Funeral service (East London)
http://quwwatulislam.org/services/burial
Forest Gate
https://minhajwelfare.org/contact
Forest Gate
Greater London
https://muslimburialcare.com
Hainault
East London coroner / pathologist
https://www.walthamforest.gov.uk/content/mortuary
#death #funeral
Knowledge Hub UK
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7 pieces of advice for someone losing a loved one
https://t.me/IslamDawahUK/1555
What to do when you or your loved one is dying
https://alifewithallah.com/death/what-to-do-when-you-or-your-loved-ones-are-dying/
What to do when you are dying
https://alifewithallah.com/death/be-ready-for-death-what-to-do-when-death-is-imminent/
#death #funeral
Knowledge Hub UK
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What to do when you or your loved one is dying
https://alifewithallah.com/death/what-to-do-when-you-or-your-loved-ones-are-dying/
What to do when you are dying
https://alifewithallah.com/death/be-ready-for-death-what-to-do-when-death-is-imminent/
#death #funeral
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7 pieces of advice for every Muslim losing a loved one
https://www.sakoon.co.uk/blog/7-pieces-of-advice-for-every-muslim-losing-a-loved-one
https://www.sakoon.co.uk/blog/7-pieces-of-advice-for-every-muslim-losing-a-loved-one
The brain development of a child’s life is very important for later health and development.
In reality the brain grows before birth and if you want a good foundation for future learning and health, you need to think about caring before during pregnancy
How well a brain develops depends on many factors in addition to genes, here are some recommendations and warnings to ponder on:
https://bravepath.org/2021/02/13/17-tips-why-the-early-years-are-important
#EYFS #parenting
In reality the brain grows before birth and if you want a good foundation for future learning and health, you need to think about caring before during pregnancy
How well a brain develops depends on many factors in addition to genes, here are some recommendations and warnings to ponder on:
https://bravepath.org/2021/02/13/17-tips-why-the-early-years-are-important
#EYFS #parenting
Children's attention
This is a reminder for myself first and then for you.
Please reflect with me--not feel guilty
Throughout the day, in a 100 different ways (some not so nice) our kids want to know, "Mama, do you see me? Baba, do you hear me? " (I'm sure you have heard a quote like that before). 😍
At the end of the day--all kids want is our UNDIVIDED ATTENTION.
Our phones are the greatest blessing as well at the biggest distraction. It's a double edged sword. The tool itself is useful in so many ways & we can't function without it.
But...
1. Our phone distracts us from being present and reflective.😦
2. Our phone may numb us from facing our problems and resolving our deeper issues. 😞
3. We remain stuck, overwhelmed and snap at the kids. 😢
Yes we are busy & are juggling so many things. Our work is on our phone. But are there times we stop working? 🤔
In our nuclear family, parents are doing the job of an entire village. 😟
So of course we are tired and just want to take a break to scroll IG or connect with another adult who gets us! Because it can be lonely especially during #covid. 😔
Then...45min or an hr later we are reunited with our chaos and overwhelm which has grown in size somehow... 🙈
But that doesn't minimize the fact that your kids need our attention. 😢
Like sands through the hour glass, time is slipping way and our kids are getting older and older... 😭
We should fear missing out on their smile, their mannerisms, the twinkle in their eye when they want to tell us something that they are excited about.🥰
When they want to win us over from our phone....They want to make sure we are not missing out....on them! ❤️
They want us to think about the things that are bothering us so you can resolve issues, find closure and lighten our baggage (and we all have baggage!)
By: BraveMuslimParenting
This is a reminder for myself first and then for you.
Please reflect with me--not feel guilty
Throughout the day, in a 100 different ways (some not so nice) our kids want to know, "Mama, do you see me? Baba, do you hear me? " (I'm sure you have heard a quote like that before). 😍
At the end of the day--all kids want is our UNDIVIDED ATTENTION.
Our phones are the greatest blessing as well at the biggest distraction. It's a double edged sword. The tool itself is useful in so many ways & we can't function without it.
But...
1. Our phone distracts us from being present and reflective.😦
2. Our phone may numb us from facing our problems and resolving our deeper issues. 😞
3. We remain stuck, overwhelmed and snap at the kids. 😢
Yes we are busy & are juggling so many things. Our work is on our phone. But are there times we stop working? 🤔
In our nuclear family, parents are doing the job of an entire village. 😟
So of course we are tired and just want to take a break to scroll IG or connect with another adult who gets us! Because it can be lonely especially during #covid. 😔
Then...45min or an hr later we are reunited with our chaos and overwhelm which has grown in size somehow... 🙈
But that doesn't minimize the fact that your kids need our attention. 😢
Like sands through the hour glass, time is slipping way and our kids are getting older and older... 😭
We should fear missing out on their smile, their mannerisms, the twinkle in their eye when they want to tell us something that they are excited about.🥰
When they want to win us over from our phone....They want to make sure we are not missing out....on them! ❤️
They want us to think about the things that are bothering us so you can resolve issues, find closure and lighten our baggage (and we all have baggage!)
By: BraveMuslimParenting
Ultra-dependence
Tawakkul (trust in Allah [God]) enables us to handle the complexity of our lives and provides us with the spiritual energy needed to ward off the onslaught of the challenges and problems resulting from those complexities.
A lot of women/sisters within the Muslim community (especially in the west) suffer from ultra independence.
Our sisters need to understand that the inability to receive support from others is a trauma response.
Your “I don’t need anyone, I’ll just do it all myself” conditioning is a survival tactic. You needed it to shield your tender heart from abuse, neglect, betrayal, and disappointment from those who could not or would not be there for you.
From the parent who was absent by choice or by the circumstance of working three jobs to feed and house you. From the ex(s) who offered sexual intimacy but offered no security, safety or emotional depth that honoured your soul & heart.
From the friendships that always took more than they gave.
From all the situations when someone told you “we’re in this together” then abandoned you, leaving you to pick up the pieces when things got difficult, leaving you to handle your part and their part, too.
From the lies. The betrayals.
You learned along the way that you just couldn’t really trust people. Or that you could trust people, but only up to a certain point.
Ultra-independence is a trust issue.
You learned: if I don’t put myself in a situation where I rely on someone, I won’t have to be disappointed when they don’t show up for me, or when they drop the ball... because they will always drop the ball sooner or later, right?
You may even have been intentionally taught this protection strategy by generations of hurt women who came before you especially within some muslim cultures. (generational-trauma, ancestral-trauma)
Ultra-independence is a preemptive strike against heartbreak. So, you don’t trust anyone. And you don’t trust yourself, either, to choose people.
To trust is to hope, to trust is vulnerability.
“Never again,” you vowed.
But no matter how you dress it up and display it proudly to make it seem like this level of independence is what you always wanted to be, in truth it’s your wounded, scarred, broken heart behind a protective brick wall.
Impenetrable. Nothing gets in. No hurt gets in. But no love and sometimes even no faith gets in either. Fortresses and armor are for those in battle, or who believe the battle is coming.
It’s actually a trauma response.
The good news is trauma that is acknowledged is trauma that can be healed.
You are worthy of having support.
You are worthy of having true partnership. You are worthy of love. You are worthy of having your heart held. You are worthy to be adored.
You are worthy to be cherished.
You are worthy to have someone say, “You rest. I got this.” And actually deliver on that promise.
You are worthy to receive, you don’t have to earn it. You don’t have to prove it. You don’t have to bargain for it. You don’t have to beg for it.
You are worthy.
Simply because you exist and are a believer.
And whosoever puts his trust in Allah then He will suffice him.” ~ Quran 65:3.
Reflect.
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Tawakkul (trust in Allah [God]) enables us to handle the complexity of our lives and provides us with the spiritual energy needed to ward off the onslaught of the challenges and problems resulting from those complexities.
A lot of women/sisters within the Muslim community (especially in the west) suffer from ultra independence.
Our sisters need to understand that the inability to receive support from others is a trauma response.
Your “I don’t need anyone, I’ll just do it all myself” conditioning is a survival tactic. You needed it to shield your tender heart from abuse, neglect, betrayal, and disappointment from those who could not or would not be there for you.
From the parent who was absent by choice or by the circumstance of working three jobs to feed and house you. From the ex(s) who offered sexual intimacy but offered no security, safety or emotional depth that honoured your soul & heart.
From the friendships that always took more than they gave.
From all the situations when someone told you “we’re in this together” then abandoned you, leaving you to pick up the pieces when things got difficult, leaving you to handle your part and their part, too.
From the lies. The betrayals.
You learned along the way that you just couldn’t really trust people. Or that you could trust people, but only up to a certain point.
Ultra-independence is a trust issue.
You learned: if I don’t put myself in a situation where I rely on someone, I won’t have to be disappointed when they don’t show up for me, or when they drop the ball... because they will always drop the ball sooner or later, right?
You may even have been intentionally taught this protection strategy by generations of hurt women who came before you especially within some muslim cultures. (generational-trauma, ancestral-trauma)
Ultra-independence is a preemptive strike against heartbreak. So, you don’t trust anyone. And you don’t trust yourself, either, to choose people.
To trust is to hope, to trust is vulnerability.
“Never again,” you vowed.
But no matter how you dress it up and display it proudly to make it seem like this level of independence is what you always wanted to be, in truth it’s your wounded, scarred, broken heart behind a protective brick wall.
Impenetrable. Nothing gets in. No hurt gets in. But no love and sometimes even no faith gets in either. Fortresses and armor are for those in battle, or who believe the battle is coming.
It’s actually a trauma response.
The good news is trauma that is acknowledged is trauma that can be healed.
You are worthy of having support.
You are worthy of having true partnership. You are worthy of love. You are worthy of having your heart held. You are worthy to be adored.
You are worthy to be cherished.
You are worthy to have someone say, “You rest. I got this.” And actually deliver on that promise.
You are worthy to receive, you don’t have to earn it. You don’t have to prove it. You don’t have to bargain for it. You don’t have to beg for it.
You are worthy.
Simply because you exist and are a believer.
And whosoever puts his trust in Allah then He will suffice him.” ~ Quran 65:3.
Reflect.
Knowledge Hub UK
https://t.me/KnowledgeHubUK
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Home schooling sample plan
Here's the rough timetable of Muslim family’s homeschooling routine.
One can adjust it according to meet their personal needs / ages of children:
Dawn : Fajr Prayer (then back to bed) or Qur'an Reading
7-8:30 am Breakfast, House Chores
8:30-9:00 Qur'an Reading - tafseer and seerah
9:00-9:30 Handwriting - writing stories about the Prophets and Companions
9:30-10:15 Math's (lost time will Insha' Allah be compensated if Qur'an Reading is done right after Satalul Fajr)
10:15-10:45 Doha' Prayer, Break & Bit of House work
10:45-11:30 Language / Reading / Phonics
11:30-12:30pm Salatul Thuhur + Lunch
12:30- 1:00 Science (Which could be Reading, cooking, gardening too)
1:00-1:30 Social Studies (Countries around the World) Much of this was done orally - researching together and discussing what we found.
Nap: Islamic Stories (Studies) + Questions for Comprehension
This Timetable can be used with either a classical curriculum with text books etc. or a unit studies method of teaching.
The rest of the Time is for Life and the lessons it has to teach.
This time can include doing good deeds for other people like the elderly in the community, visiting the sick (a much neglected obligation of we Muslim's)
We sometimes bake on Thursday in preparation for visiting the sick or lunch on Friday.
No secular study done on Friday because we make it as a Little Eid as mentioned in the Sunnah of the Prophet (saws).
Sometimes if one of the mothers we know has had a baby we visit her and the kids and I help her; perhaps by cooking, helping with housework, or taking her other children out so she can have a break or just much needed sleep.
https://t.me/joinchat/AAAAAEpdfiBFhn43t0R0yw
#homeschooling #education #salah #worship #rest #play #chores #tasks #children #child
Here's the rough timetable of Muslim family’s homeschooling routine.
One can adjust it according to meet their personal needs / ages of children:
Dawn : Fajr Prayer (then back to bed) or Qur'an Reading
7-8:30 am Breakfast, House Chores
8:30-9:00 Qur'an Reading - tafseer and seerah
9:00-9:30 Handwriting - writing stories about the Prophets and Companions
9:30-10:15 Math's (lost time will Insha' Allah be compensated if Qur'an Reading is done right after Satalul Fajr)
10:15-10:45 Doha' Prayer, Break & Bit of House work
10:45-11:30 Language / Reading / Phonics
11:30-12:30pm Salatul Thuhur + Lunch
12:30- 1:00 Science (Which could be Reading, cooking, gardening too)
1:00-1:30 Social Studies (Countries around the World) Much of this was done orally - researching together and discussing what we found.
Nap: Islamic Stories (Studies) + Questions for Comprehension
This Timetable can be used with either a classical curriculum with text books etc. or a unit studies method of teaching.
The rest of the Time is for Life and the lessons it has to teach.
This time can include doing good deeds for other people like the elderly in the community, visiting the sick (a much neglected obligation of we Muslim's)
We sometimes bake on Thursday in preparation for visiting the sick or lunch on Friday.
No secular study done on Friday because we make it as a Little Eid as mentioned in the Sunnah of the Prophet (saws).
Sometimes if one of the mothers we know has had a baby we visit her and the kids and I help her; perhaps by cooking, helping with housework, or taking her other children out so she can have a break or just much needed sleep.
https://t.me/joinchat/AAAAAEpdfiBFhn43t0R0yw
#homeschooling #education #salah #worship #rest #play #chores #tasks #children #child
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Salam. Welcome to our channel. If you’re homeschooling or planning to; then join us for some inspiration. Here we share facts, info, any books &
resources, details of meet ups etc; all to make your journey in Home Ed easy & enjoyable.
resources, details of meet ups etc; all to make your journey in Home Ed easy & enjoyable.
Teaching about winter especially to those who do not like the season.
https://www.teachingenglish.org.uk/article/rants-raves-winter
https://www.teachingenglish.org.uk/article/rants-raves-winter
TeachingEnglish | British Council | BBC
Rants and raves: Winter
About the audio In this audio recording, students listen to a woman living in the UK, talking about all the reasons why she doesn't like winter.