My first time with my boyfriend wasn’t romantic at all.

I’ve been dating my boyfriend now for over 2 months now. Everything has been perfect so far. He’s genuinely so kind and loving. He sees a future with me, and I with him.

He always gives 100% effort in our relationship and it’s been such a breath of fresh air because I was in two bad relationships before him (but have done 3 years of therapy since and worked through all of that).

Imagine my disappointment when we... for the first time last week and it was anything but intimate.

I’ve been feeling so sad since and realized what might’ve made me feel this way. We’ve had a few sleepovers before this but he’s always respectful and never initiated anything.

This time was no different until we woke up in the mornin...

He asked if I wanted to take it to the next step and I very much did. So we started and it was just immediate he do it straight. No warm up or anything, straight away go for it.

After 1 min the game ended.

Since I’ve had time to think about this, I think I feel so empty because we didn’t kiss, no warm up, just plain piak end in 1min and he didn’t ask if I am ok or anything.

His behavior since has been the same. Same amount of attention/communication, but I’m concerned that this is a red flag because I haven’t seen any others so far.

Is this normal? Did he not want to kiss because of morning breath? What should I do? Anyone else go through this? Will it get better?

Positive/constructive feedback is appreciated!!