It's all on you.
Know that you're the only one who can change what is wrong about you. No one can. No one. Unless you want too.
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Know that you're the only one who can change what is wrong about you. No one can. No one. Unless you want too.
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#SisCode
Never tolerate any kind of abuse.
Abuse isnβt just about having him hit you or beat you up. Abuse comes in all forms β mental and emotional too. While physical injuries can heal, the mental and emotional wounds are much more difficult to heal. So, donβt tolerate it if he tries to belittle you, degrade you, or gaslight you. Thatβs a total deal-breaker.
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Never tolerate any kind of abuse.
Abuse isnβt just about having him hit you or beat you up. Abuse comes in all forms β mental and emotional too. While physical injuries can heal, the mental and emotional wounds are much more difficult to heal. So, donβt tolerate it if he tries to belittle you, degrade you, or gaslight you. Thatβs a total deal-breaker.
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It's all on you. Know that you're the only one who can change what is wrong about you. No one can. No one. Unless you want too. β‘οΈ@DailyGuideluinesβ‘οΈ
And if ' You ' are not sorted or organized in your mind or in your own self with whatever you have been holding on to like some unsettled things then its a mess π
A wisdom fired on @DailyGuidelinesCommunity by a fellow mate named Simran
A wisdom fired on @DailyGuidelinesCommunity by a fellow mate named Simran
Depression is smaller than you. Always, it is smaller than you, even when it feels vast. It operates within you, you do not operate within it. It may be a dark cloud passing across the sky, but β if that is the metaphor β you are the sky. You were before it. And the cloud can't exist without the sky, but the sky can exist without the cloud.
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You know yourself better than anyone else, yet you crumble at the words of of someone who hasn't even lived a second of your life. Strange, isn't it?
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You know yourself better than anyone else, yet you crumble at the words of of someone who hasn't even lived a second of your life. Strange, isn't it?
Focus on your own voice, it's the only one that matters.
Sometimes people will try to give you some of their anger, their sadness, their fear, or their guilt because it's too much for them to bear alone. You need to remember, you do not have to take what they are trying to give you. You have a choice. Instead, you could offer them some of your kindness, your understanding, your compassion, your love..
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βThe best way to not feel hopeless is to get up and do something. Don't wait for good things to happen to you. If you go out and make some good things happen, you will fill the world with hope, you will fill yourself with hope.β
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This post is for you.
For those whose suffering feels unnoticed. For those people who feel quietly stuck inside their mind. For those that feel hopeless. For those whose cries for help are mislabeled or misunderstood as cries for attention or flaws in their being. For the people who feel too tired to continue on. For people who struggle with depression and for people who don't. For people who are having a bad day, a bad season, or a rough stretch of life. And for those people who don't understand the illness but are willing to try. It's okay - whatever you need, wherever you are, however long it takes - it's okay. There is still time. To ask for help. To grow. To heal. To recover. There is still time for the sunshine to begin to seep through the cracks. For a flower to grow straight from your heart.
-Jessica Jensen
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For those whose suffering feels unnoticed. For those people who feel quietly stuck inside their mind. For those that feel hopeless. For those whose cries for help are mislabeled or misunderstood as cries for attention or flaws in their being. For the people who feel too tired to continue on. For people who struggle with depression and for people who don't. For people who are having a bad day, a bad season, or a rough stretch of life. And for those people who don't understand the illness but are willing to try. It's okay - whatever you need, wherever you are, however long it takes - it's okay. There is still time. To ask for help. To grow. To heal. To recover. There is still time for the sunshine to begin to seep through the cracks. For a flower to grow straight from your heart.
-Jessica Jensen
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Stick with friends who saw you, when nobody else did, and who were true from the very start.
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Maybe nothing we ever do goes out into the universe in vain. You give so much love, you receive it ten folds some other day.
- Courtesy of Kitty
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- Courtesy of Kitty
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#SisCode
Donβt date someone whoβs overly jealous or possessive.
At best, this is annoying. At worst, itβs gaslighting. If someone doesnβt trust you, donβt change your behavior in order to appease them. Take it as a sign and run.
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Donβt date someone whoβs overly jealous or possessive.
At best, this is annoying. At worst, itβs gaslighting. If someone doesnβt trust you, donβt change your behavior in order to appease them. Take it as a sign and run.
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The truth about your heart...
Your heart will fix itself. It's your mind you need to worry about. Your mind where you locked the memories, your mind where you have kept pieces of the ones that hurt you, that still cut through you like shards of glass. Your mind will keep you up at night, make you cry, destroy you over and over again. You need to convince your mind that it has to let go...because your heart already knows how to heal.
- Nikita Gill
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Your heart will fix itself. It's your mind you need to worry about. Your mind where you locked the memories, your mind where you have kept pieces of the ones that hurt you, that still cut through you like shards of glass. Your mind will keep you up at night, make you cry, destroy you over and over again. You need to convince your mind that it has to let go...because your heart already knows how to heal.
- Nikita Gill
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Happily Ever After doesnβt exist. Every day you wake up and decide to love your partner and your life the good, the bad and the ugly. Some days itβs a struggle and some days you feel like the luckiest person in the world.
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Focus on What You Can Control, Not What You Canβt
Some situations are beyond your control and no matter what you do, you canβt change a thing. Youβre setting yourself up for frustration when you focus your time and energy on things you canβt control. Youβre also making the situation seem even more bleak than it actually is because youβre focusing on the negatives. You should instead focus on the things that are within your control because thatβs the only way you can make a change thatβs actually going to help you. Make a list of everything you can control about the situation and divert all of your focus towards those things. Anything thatβs not on the list, doesnβt get any attention.
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Some situations are beyond your control and no matter what you do, you canβt change a thing. Youβre setting yourself up for frustration when you focus your time and energy on things you canβt control. Youβre also making the situation seem even more bleak than it actually is because youβre focusing on the negatives. You should instead focus on the things that are within your control because thatβs the only way you can make a change thatβs actually going to help you. Make a list of everything you can control about the situation and divert all of your focus towards those things. Anything thatβs not on the list, doesnβt get any attention.
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The thought of being vulnerable is a scary proposition for most people. But it's how you show your true self at the risk of being hurt. When you date someone new, showing this side can deepen your connection and build trust. Vulnerability can be a gift to the person who's wanting to know you on a deeper level.
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Listen to your own voice, your own soul, to many people listen to the noise of the world, instead of themselves. Deep inside you know what you want, let no one decide that for you.
- Leon Brown
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- Leon Brown
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Iβm not an expert in anything. Not even near to that.
Why do I think I have the right to advise anyone on, well, anything?
Sometimes I feel a bit like a fraud. Is it fair for me to sit here and tell other people, βYes, youβll get past this tough time, and hereβs what you have to keep in mindβ when almost all the time, I ignore the advices I post ? Occasionally, when a fam comments and says some overwhelming words I laugh a little and think, βYea, if only I could follow it more" But at the same time, arenβt we all figuring it out? Even the smartest person you know gets things wrong and has their doubts. Even the most accomplished people on the planet question themselves from time to time. And no matter who is saying it, you should take everyone elseβs advice with a grain of salt and a critical eye. For me, itβs as much about helping other people as it is about simply letting them know theyβre not alone.Thatβs why I love about searching as well as writing the guidelines.
Why do I think I have the right to advise anyone on, well, anything?
Sometimes I feel a bit like a fraud. Is it fair for me to sit here and tell other people, βYes, youβll get past this tough time, and hereβs what you have to keep in mindβ when almost all the time, I ignore the advices I post ? Occasionally, when a fam comments and says some overwhelming words I laugh a little and think, βYea, if only I could follow it more" But at the same time, arenβt we all figuring it out? Even the smartest person you know gets things wrong and has their doubts. Even the most accomplished people on the planet question themselves from time to time. And no matter who is saying it, you should take everyone elseβs advice with a grain of salt and a critical eye. For me, itβs as much about helping other people as it is about simply letting them know theyβre not alone.Thatβs why I love about searching as well as writing the guidelines.
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Adele β Make You Feel My Love
Even though many people describe my music taste as 'depressing' I got the chance to meet those who really enjoy it. And I hope you will be one of them *Chuckles*
Good night beauteous people!
Good night beauteous people!
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