Can't fight to be loved by someone. You can't fight too.
If someone genuinely cares about you and wants you in their they will do whatever it takes to keep you there. If you're
confused about how they feel, if they pull you in only to push you away, if what they say troubles your mind or makes you feel misunderstood - then you must let them go. Actions speak louder than words and if you can't see love or care for yourself in their eyes, the truth is that it probably isn't there. I know that you want to give them the benefit of doubt; they need time, you're pushing them too much, or you both should take it slow - all these possibilities are valid, but they don't apply in cases where you're not sure about your place in someone's life. It's fine to take extra time if you're both headed in the same direction. It's okay to walk slowly on this journey if you both want to get to know each other as friends before anything else. But if they confuse you or give you mixed signals, or if they treat you right only to treat you badly again - then they're bringing negative energy into your life which is not okay. You can't love or care. Because if you must force love - then it is never going to be love.
Taken from a book
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If someone genuinely cares about you and wants you in their they will do whatever it takes to keep you there. If you're
confused about how they feel, if they pull you in only to push you away, if what they say troubles your mind or makes you feel misunderstood - then you must let them go. Actions speak louder than words and if you can't see love or care for yourself in their eyes, the truth is that it probably isn't there. I know that you want to give them the benefit of doubt; they need time, you're pushing them too much, or you both should take it slow - all these possibilities are valid, but they don't apply in cases where you're not sure about your place in someone's life. It's fine to take extra time if you're both headed in the same direction. It's okay to walk slowly on this journey if you both want to get to know each other as friends before anything else. But if they confuse you or give you mixed signals, or if they treat you right only to treat you badly again - then they're bringing negative energy into your life which is not okay. You can't love or care. Because if you must force love - then it is never going to be love.
Taken from a book
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If you always care about what other people think and you will always be their prisoner.
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Unless you fill yourself up first, you have nothing to give anybody. Therefore it is imperative that you tend to you first. Attend to your joy first. People are responsible for their own joy. When you tend to your joy and do what makes you feel good, you are a joy to be around and you are a shining example to every child and every person in your life. When you are feeling joy you don't even have to think about giving. It is a natural overflow.
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Train yourself not to go out of your way to fix what you didn't break and heal what you didn't wound. Learn how to leave what doesn't concern you on its own.
- Courtesy of Kitty
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- Courtesy of Kitty
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#BroCode
A confident man has nothing to prove. An arrogant man believes he must prove everything in order to support his confidence.
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A confident man has nothing to prove. An arrogant man believes he must prove everything in order to support his confidence.
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'Let time will be patient
Let pain be gracious'
"What you go through will help you get through" - Adele
Let pain be gracious'
"What you go through will help you get through" - Adele
It's all on you.
Know that you're the only one who can change what is wrong about you. No one can. No one. Unless you want too.
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Know that you're the only one who can change what is wrong about you. No one can. No one. Unless you want too.
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#SisCode
Never tolerate any kind of abuse.
Abuse isnβt just about having him hit you or beat you up. Abuse comes in all forms β mental and emotional too. While physical injuries can heal, the mental and emotional wounds are much more difficult to heal. So, donβt tolerate it if he tries to belittle you, degrade you, or gaslight you. Thatβs a total deal-breaker.
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Never tolerate any kind of abuse.
Abuse isnβt just about having him hit you or beat you up. Abuse comes in all forms β mental and emotional too. While physical injuries can heal, the mental and emotional wounds are much more difficult to heal. So, donβt tolerate it if he tries to belittle you, degrade you, or gaslight you. Thatβs a total deal-breaker.
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It's all on you. Know that you're the only one who can change what is wrong about you. No one can. No one. Unless you want too. β‘οΈ@DailyGuideluinesβ‘οΈ
And if ' You ' are not sorted or organized in your mind or in your own self with whatever you have been holding on to like some unsettled things then its a mess π
A wisdom fired on @DailyGuidelinesCommunity by a fellow mate named Simran
A wisdom fired on @DailyGuidelinesCommunity by a fellow mate named Simran
Depression is smaller than you. Always, it is smaller than you, even when it feels vast. It operates within you, you do not operate within it. It may be a dark cloud passing across the sky, but β if that is the metaphor β you are the sky. You were before it. And the cloud can't exist without the sky, but the sky can exist without the cloud.
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You know yourself better than anyone else, yet you crumble at the words of of someone who hasn't even lived a second of your life. Strange, isn't it?
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You know yourself better than anyone else, yet you crumble at the words of of someone who hasn't even lived a second of your life. Strange, isn't it?
Focus on your own voice, it's the only one that matters.
Sometimes people will try to give you some of their anger, their sadness, their fear, or their guilt because it's too much for them to bear alone. You need to remember, you do not have to take what they are trying to give you. You have a choice. Instead, you could offer them some of your kindness, your understanding, your compassion, your love..
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βThe best way to not feel hopeless is to get up and do something. Don't wait for good things to happen to you. If you go out and make some good things happen, you will fill the world with hope, you will fill yourself with hope.β
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This post is for you.
For those whose suffering feels unnoticed. For those people who feel quietly stuck inside their mind. For those that feel hopeless. For those whose cries for help are mislabeled or misunderstood as cries for attention or flaws in their being. For the people who feel too tired to continue on. For people who struggle with depression and for people who don't. For people who are having a bad day, a bad season, or a rough stretch of life. And for those people who don't understand the illness but are willing to try. It's okay - whatever you need, wherever you are, however long it takes - it's okay. There is still time. To ask for help. To grow. To heal. To recover. There is still time for the sunshine to begin to seep through the cracks. For a flower to grow straight from your heart.
-Jessica Jensen
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For those whose suffering feels unnoticed. For those people who feel quietly stuck inside their mind. For those that feel hopeless. For those whose cries for help are mislabeled or misunderstood as cries for attention or flaws in their being. For the people who feel too tired to continue on. For people who struggle with depression and for people who don't. For people who are having a bad day, a bad season, or a rough stretch of life. And for those people who don't understand the illness but are willing to try. It's okay - whatever you need, wherever you are, however long it takes - it's okay. There is still time. To ask for help. To grow. To heal. To recover. There is still time for the sunshine to begin to seep through the cracks. For a flower to grow straight from your heart.
-Jessica Jensen
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Stick with friends who saw you, when nobody else did, and who were true from the very start.
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Maybe nothing we ever do goes out into the universe in vain. You give so much love, you receive it ten folds some other day.
- Courtesy of Kitty
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- Courtesy of Kitty
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