You won't need the validation of others.
Many of us feel accomplished once we have the validation of another person, whether itβs family, friends, colleagues or teachers. It can be the reason why we stay in relationships that make us unhappy, in jobs that we despise, or spend time with people who are toxic. When you spend your time, effort and energy being what you think others expect you to be, you will never live an authentic life. You may start to live purely to please others. But when you spend time alone, when no one else is around but you, you will begin to realize that the only person you really need to impress is yourself. Your own approval is all that matters. You will no longer feel the need to please others and gain their praise; how you feel about yourself is enough.
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Many of us feel accomplished once we have the validation of another person, whether itβs family, friends, colleagues or teachers. It can be the reason why we stay in relationships that make us unhappy, in jobs that we despise, or spend time with people who are toxic. When you spend your time, effort and energy being what you think others expect you to be, you will never live an authentic life. You may start to live purely to please others. But when you spend time alone, when no one else is around but you, you will begin to realize that the only person you really need to impress is yourself. Your own approval is all that matters. You will no longer feel the need to please others and gain their praise; how you feel about yourself is enough.
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What do you think is your toxic trait? ππΌ
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From one of my numerous toxic traits..
I always try to keep everyone happy who is around me. But the reality is that I can't. Some might enjoy what I do while others might see it as a piece of shit. That's why I concluded that I can't make everyone happy. If I believe I can, I will lose myself every time I try to do it
I always try to keep everyone happy who is around me. But the reality is that I can't. Some might enjoy what I do while others might see it as a piece of shit. That's why I concluded that I can't make everyone happy. If I believe I can, I will lose myself every time I try to do it
You need to change.
There are times when things go wrong in life. Most of us try to escape it, denying the truth life presents to us. When a problem occurs, most of the time it occurs because something is not right -- you got sick because you haven't been eating right; you are in hefty debt because you didn't live within your means; you got backstabbed because you're too trusting; your partner wanted to break up with you because you're too controlling -- the list goes on and on. Instead of looking at external circumstances and blame them for unfortunate life events, look at yourself first and see if there's anything you can improve. Can you change the way you live so that your life situation can improve? Whether it be changing your habits, attitude, or outlook, you need to change in order to improve your life's situation. Failing to accept the truth life presents to you, you will forever fall into the traps you can never seem to escape.
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There are times when things go wrong in life. Most of us try to escape it, denying the truth life presents to us. When a problem occurs, most of the time it occurs because something is not right -- you got sick because you haven't been eating right; you are in hefty debt because you didn't live within your means; you got backstabbed because you're too trusting; your partner wanted to break up with you because you're too controlling -- the list goes on and on. Instead of looking at external circumstances and blame them for unfortunate life events, look at yourself first and see if there's anything you can improve. Can you change the way you live so that your life situation can improve? Whether it be changing your habits, attitude, or outlook, you need to change in order to improve your life's situation. Failing to accept the truth life presents to you, you will forever fall into the traps you can never seem to escape.
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The body heals with play, the mind heals with laughter and the spirit heals with joy.
Wishing a good Weekdays ahead!
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Wishing a good Weekdays ahead!
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Never leave a true relationship for a few faults. Nobody is perfect, nobody is correct all the time, and in the end, affection is always greater than perfection.
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#BroCode
No girl has ever said "it's so hot when he texts me six times in a row!" look less desperate.
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No girl has ever said "it's so hot when he texts me six times in a row!" look less desperate.
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Donβt forget to ignore any lame shit today and everyday, itβs not worth your energy.
Have a great day!
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Have a great day!
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πΌTo all my fellow Ethiopian brothers and sisters,πΌ
Wave goodbye to the old and embrace the new with hope, dreams, and ambition. Wishing you a new Year full of happiness.
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Wave goodbye to the old and embrace the new with hope, dreams, and ambition. Wishing you a new Year full of happiness.
#NewYearπΌ
#BetterYouπΌ
Appreciate your journey
It is far too easy to get caught up in worrying about the future.
When people get too caught up in what will happen, they do not take time to enjoy the present. Life is a journey. You will not end up where you expect. So learn to enjoy the trip while keeping one eye on the road.
If you appreciate the now, you will be far better off when you get to where you are going.
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It is far too easy to get caught up in worrying about the future.
When people get too caught up in what will happen, they do not take time to enjoy the present. Life is a journey. You will not end up where you expect. So learn to enjoy the trip while keeping one eye on the road.
If you appreciate the now, you will be far better off when you get to where you are going.
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When a door closes, knock on it a few times. But if it still doesn't open, let it stay closed. In career, in love, in life, when you see the period at the end of the sentence, don't try and turn it into a comma. Know when something is over and move on.
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You don't lose real friends, real opportunities or real relationships when you start standing up for yourself and setting clear boundaries. You lose abusers, manipulators, narcissist, control freaks, attention seekers and mental- health destroying leechs.
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I need somebody who can love me at my worst
No, I'm not perfect, but I hope you see my worth
No, I'm not perfect, but I hope you see my worth
Be careful who you feel sorry for. Some people are good at lying and playing the victim.
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Knowing when to leave is important. The job, The relationship, The set back.
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#BroCode
Make Her Laugh.
Itβs a given fact that women would choose a guy who makes her laugh than a handsome guy. What use are looks when you canβt talk or share jokes? laughter is definitely the other way through a womanβs heart.
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Make Her Laugh.
Itβs a given fact that women would choose a guy who makes her laugh than a handsome guy. What use are looks when you canβt talk or share jokes? laughter is definitely the other way through a womanβs heart.
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Healing is not linear. there will be days it feels like you are taking two steps back, but at the macro level you're stiil moving forward, even on the days it doesn't feel like you're growing. Be patient about it.
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