We have an exclusive reminder for our students today.

By our lovely guest Abu Salwa AbdulQadir. جزاه الله خيرا

بســـم الله الرحمن الرحيم

CHALLENGES OF PARENTING
& THE AIM OF HOMESCHOOLING 📝

💠 A free conference for parents, carers & educators

Delivered by:
🎙️Abu Atiyyah Mahmud
🎙️Abu Ishaq Muhammad

A must attend event for the family to discover valuable insights into the challenges of parenting & the real aim of homeschooling.

Learn inspiring perspectives & have your burning questions answered in our Q&A session!

📆DATE: Saturday 21st December 2024
🕐TIME: 5:00PM-8:00PM (Doors open at 4:45pm)
📍Ashton Playing Fields
598 Chigwell Road,
Woodford Green IG8 8AA
🚗FREE parking onsite
Open to Brothers & Sisters (segregated)

➡️ REGISTER FREE VIA EVENTBRITE
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(⚠️Children welcome but must be supervised & kept quiet⚠️)
FREE refreshments & deserts/ snacks will be for sale ☕🍰🍪

🔈 Spread the word, we look forward to seeing you there

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🌷Encouragement to Be Gentle
with Women

Abu Hurairah (may Allāh be pleased with him) narrated that the Messenger of Allâh (peace be upon him) said:

Treat women with kindness, for a woman was created from a rib. The most curved part of the rib is its upper part. If you try to straighten it, you will break it. If you leave it alone, it will remain curved. Therefore, treat women with kindness.
📕(Bukhari & Muslim)

✏️ Ibn Hajar al-Asqalani (may Allāh have mercy on him) explained:

This hadith encourages gentleness with women, as this is the best way to win their hearts and gain their affection. It also teaches us to be patient with their mistakes and overlook their shortcomings, for attempting to change them completely will only lead to harm. A person cannot do without a wife, who serves as a companion and a helper in daily life. Therefore, patience and kindness are essential.

📖 Reference:
Benefits of As-Sheikha Umm Abdullah Al-Wadi'iyya (may Allah protect her), daughter of Sheikh Muqbil رحمه الله

✍ Umm Hyatt حفظها الله

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And I would like to add;

That this is from the best means of upbringing your children in a household filled with harmony, love and gentleness between the parents.
It indirectly teaches the child how to be. The children are positively affected by it. The children then also practice overlooking, gentleness and patience with each other.
Perhaps an aggressive and argumentative child is as a result of the fathers not having gentleness with their wives and vice versa.
والله أعلم

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

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Baarak Allaahu feekum

Poem :*Throw in The Towel*

Abu Rayhana
AbdulHakeem (حفظه الله)

This is a good poem for the teenagers just as much as it is good for the adults. Be sure to share it with your children!

May Allaah preserve the author of the poem and reward him with much good.

Listen to it with your teenage children.

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🌟 *The Best Among You*

The Messenger ofAllāh (peace be upon him) said:

"The best of you are those who are best to their families (in treatment, conduct, and speech)."

📌 Note:
From the statement of the Messenger, we benefit the emphasis Islaam places on treating family members with kindness and respect. This is considered the foundation of virtue and true success. What is the benefit of being esteemed in the eyes of people while your family suffers from abusive, harsh, and inconsiderate treatment? If you do not bring happiness to your parents and family, this will only lead to your misfortune, even if the whole world is pleased with you.

✍ Umm Hyatt حفظها الله

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Therefore, be a role model for your children with regards to this O' "men".

O Ungrateful One!

If your friend invites you to a meal, you are ever grateful.

Yet your mother and father work tirelessly to provide you 3 meals a day, and still, you treat them with disrespect!

Forwarded Answer from Abu Rayḥānah AbdulHakeem Al-Amreeki hafidahullah

وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته

My dear brother, may Allah aid you in your situation.

You are struggling with an issue of manhood. All men struggle with this, some more than others.This is nothing strange for Muslim men. Don't feel alone.

Avoid that which may arose your desires by way of your eyes and ears.

Also do things which exert from you energy in order to kill your desires. Like fasting, exercising, sports, swimming and cycling.

One must be resolute that anything unlawful (haram) is not a solution for his desire. This is Piety and righteousness, it's the main thing needed to control your desires.

Furthermore, in the middle of the night, 2 or 3 sets of push ups or pulls can help remove strong urges.

Point being, you must learn how to manage your desires. They won't totally go away but thay can be under control.

Controlling desires is a noble and honorable achievement to obtain and acquire thru hard work.

Marriage is no doubt the best solution. However, it's for the purpose of building a family not just satisfying desires. It comes with responsibilities.

May Allāh strengthen you

A poem about DEDICATION by our noble brother and Shaykh Abū Rayhānah 'AbdulHakīm Al-Amrīkī حفظه الله.