تقبل الله منا ومنكم صالح الأعمال وكل عام وأنتم إلى الجنة أقرب وعن النار أبعد

The interference of one of the parents in the nurturing role of the other, is hidden corruption

Indeed, for the father and the mother are their independent roles when raising the children, one does not suffice in place of the other, and it is incorrect for one to take the place of the other, rather each of them is to fulfill their roles in order to complete eachother. Allāh -The Almighty- says:
{ یَـٰۤأَیُّهَا ٱلَّذِینَ ءَامَنُوا۟ قُوۤا۟ أَنفُسَكُمۡ وَأَهۡلِیكُمۡ نَارࣰا }
O you who believe! Ward off yourselves and your families against a Fire (Hell)
[Surah At-Taḥrīm: 6]
Imām At-Tabarī said (regarding this ayah): "I.e teach them and discipline them".

And when the roles become mixed up, or one of the parents stands as an obstacle in the way of the other, upbringing becomes flawed, and the guiding structure for the children is weakened.

Often, the mother — by her emotional nature — leans toward gentleness and spoiling, and perhaps she thinks that coaxing or kindness will lead to the child's compliance. But she doed not realise that some children are clever and emotionally exploit this to fulfill their desires. In fact, they may resort to various forms of behavioral pressure — such as anger, neglect, threatening to cry, or refusing to eat — if their wishes are not met."

Such behavior may also come from the father, but it is usually less frequent because his nature is generally closer to firmness than that of the mother.

One of the greatest mistakes is when the mother cancels the father’s authority in the eyes of her child, by portraying him in a negative way, or making the child feel that the father has no role to play in upbringing and that he has no authority over the childs wrongdoings. She might say to the child, "Don’t worry, I won’t tell your father" or "I will talk it over with him." Then she puts on the cloak of defending the child when a mistake happens, causing the father to become restricted, and his commands lose their effect

Indeed the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم said: "Each of you is a shepherd, and each of you is responsible for his flock." [Reported by al-Bukhari and Muslim]
Just as the father is responsible for firmness and discipline, the mother is responsible for supporting and enabling this firmness, not opposing it.

How many a mother, driven by compassion, hides her child’s mistakes from her husband or stands between him and disciplining the child, so the child grows up rebellious, knowing no respect for authority and feeling no weight for his mistakes. As he grows older, his stubbornness intensifies, making it difficult to correct him. Often, this cultivational problem is left unnoticed up until the axe has fallen on the head.

So it is a must upon both parents to cooperate and complete each other, not to go against one another, and for each to know the limits of their duties and perform them as they would like their partner to perform theirs. For indeed, Disputing over the nurturing roles is the worst thing that can ruin the children.

Written by: Ash-Shaykh Faysal Al-Hāshidī

https://t.me/f6has/1322

A good opportunity for the teenagers who have good understanding to take advantage of their summer to grow as a Muslim.
A very nice set of lessons to build on their foundation!

Push your teens to attend!

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Our role as elders, parents, uncles, older brothers and teachers is to nurture the youth in the best way possible.

Our children are the seeds, we are the cultivators, we need to make sure the Ummah can harvest the fruits tomorrow.

Look at the state today, and then look at the state of the youth...

How do you see the future of a Ummah who's children's minds are taken by every kind of distraction on social media.

We are internally bleeding and do not feel it. I fear that Allaah will replace us due to our weakness and negligence.

{ هَـٰۤأَنتُمۡ هَـٰۤؤُلَاۤءِ تُدۡعَوۡنَ لِتُنفِقُوا۟ فِی سَبِیلِ ٱللَّهِ فَمِنكُم مَّن یَبۡخَلُۖ وَمَن یَبۡخَلۡ فَإِنَّمَا یَبۡخَلُ عَن نَّفۡسِهِۦۚ وَٱللَّهُ ٱلۡغَنِیُّ وَأَنتُمُ ٱلۡفُقَرَاۤءُۚ وَإِن تَتَوَلَّوۡا۟ یَسۡتَبۡدِلۡ قَوۡمًا غَیۡرَكُمۡ ثُمَّ لَا یَكُونُوۤا۟ أَمۡثَـٰلَكُم }
Behold! You are those who are called to spend in the Cause of Allâh, yet among you are some who are niggardly. And whoever is niggardly, it is only at the expense of his ownself. But Allâh is Rich (Free of all needs), and you (mankind) are poor. And if you turn away (from Islâm and the obedience to Allâh), He will exchange you for some other people and they will not be your likes.
[Surah Muḥammad: 38]


May Allaah rectify us and our children 🤲

If we ponder over the current time we are living in, one will notice that one of the greatest means that was used against Islaam and the Muslims is the heedlessness of the parents over the children, which resulted in heedless children of whom were taken by the enemies of Islaam by way of doubt and desires while the parents are unaware.

May Allaah protect us and our children from these faults and slip-ups!

#afiyahlearning #protectyourchildren

The classroom is a safe place for the students to build on their confidence and prepare themselves for Da'wah!

That is what we want. Another generation of strangers who rectify in the lands and call the people to Allāh.

May Allāh guide our youth and make them a Sadaqah Jāriyah for us

Seeing the young Muslim on Jumu'ah with a nice white thawb and a 'Imāmah wrapped on his head is one of the beauties of Jumu'ah.

Principles in Reading & Writing Arabic [Preschool Level]

LESSON 2 ⤵️
https://youtu.be/8Zt9RlakTU8

This book is designed to help young learners master the Arabic alphabet in both reading and writing. Gaining proficiency in these letters marks the beginning of their journey in learning the Arabic language and serves as a solid foundation for further study.

Upon successfully completing and mastering the content of this book, students will move on to the Level 1 materials in the Series of Facilitating Sciences for Beginners.

We encourage teachers, students, and guardians to seek reward from Allāh, while maintaining sincerity, dedication, and proper methodology in learning and understanding the religion of Allāh.

This was set as homework for our students to memorise today.

We revised and learnt about the importance of our religion of Islam and how we are in need of our religion.
- We learnt how we are extremely privileged to be Muslims.
- We learnt how Islam does not need us, rather it is us who needs Islaam.
- We learnt that Islam is the most beautiful religion.
- We learnt that no matter what we choose to do with our lives, Islam will always remain the religion of truth.
- We learnt that no matter how old Islam is, we never need to change any aspects of Islam, rather it is us that needs to change.
- At the end of class we went over an important Du'a which we assigned as homework for the students to memorise.

So we decided to share it with you all...
Teach your children, have them memorise it and use it.

May Allaah keep us and our families firm upon Deenul-Islaam.