A simple step by step guide on how to pray and purify yourself, designed for those who have not yet learnt how to pray, make Wudu and perform Ghusl.

It can also be used as a guide to teach your children.

May Allāh accept it.

Dear Mothers,

السلام عليكم و رحمة الله و بركاته

🌷🍃 As the sacred months approach, what better gift can we give our sons & daughters than the knowledge and love of Allâh’s sacred rites?

⭐“Sacred Seasons” is a free, 4-day course specially designed for our youth (both boys & girls aged 11–14+), exploring the deep virtues of the blessed months, Hajj, sacrifice, and Eid al-Adha.

In just four days, your child will gain timeless Islâmic insights, build a strong spiritual foundation, and connect with sacred traditions in a way that inspires both the heart and the mind.

Why now? Because this is the season of reflection and readiness. By dedicating just an hour each day, your child can enter Dhul-Hijjah with understanding, reverence, and purpose—rather than distraction.

Seats are limited, and this opportunity is too valuable to miss❗

Don’t wait❗

Secure your child’s spot today and let these sacred moments shape his character for life,
ان شاء الله.

Enroll now — because four days can spark a lifetime of love for this beautiful Deen of Allâh ﷻ.

بارك الله فيكن 💐

Forwarded

Corrected version

Corrected version

Qurbani Rules | Part 1 ⤵️
https://youtu.be/NPUe86RtpHg

CONTENTS:

Q1. Definition of أضحية

Q2. When was it legislated?

Q3. What are the benefits of sacrificing an أضحية?

Q4. What is the ruling of sacrificing an أضحية

Q5. Does the father offer أضحية for his children if they are married?

Q6. Sacrificing أضحية on behalf of the deceased

Q7. Are there any hadiths which mention specific virtues of أضحية

Q8. Is one allowed to take a loan in order to buy an أضحية

Q9. Conditions for a valid أضحية

Q10. What kind of animal may be offered as أضحية?

O mothers & fathers,

If your daughter has reached the age of puberty and has not yet worn the ḥijāb, make this ʿEid even more special for her by making it the beginning of her modesty — the start of her journey to wear the honourable crown.

Instead of buying her the usual ʿEid clothes that do not meet the rulings of hijāb, gift her beautiful, modest, and honourable clothing, so that she can walk with dignity to the ʿEid prayer, preserved by her īmān and adorned in her noble veil.

Do not delay beyond the age of puberty, for you will be questioned about your children before they are questioned about you.

May Allah make these sacred days blessed upon us and upon the Ummah of Islam.

تقبل الله منا ومنكم صالح الأعمال وكل عام وأنتم إلى الجنة أقرب وعن النار أبعد

The interference of one of the parents in the nurturing role of the other, is hidden corruption

Indeed, for the father and the mother are their independent roles when raising the children, one does not suffice in place of the other, and it is incorrect for one to take the place of the other, rather each of them is to fulfill their roles in order to complete eachother. Allāh -The Almighty- says:
{ یَـٰۤأَیُّهَا ٱلَّذِینَ ءَامَنُوا۟ قُوۤا۟ أَنفُسَكُمۡ وَأَهۡلِیكُمۡ نَارࣰا }
O you who believe! Ward off yourselves and your families against a Fire (Hell)
[Surah At-Taḥrīm: 6]
Imām At-Tabarī said (regarding this ayah): "I.e teach them and discipline them".

And when the roles become mixed up, or one of the parents stands as an obstacle in the way of the other, upbringing becomes flawed, and the guiding structure for the children is weakened.

Often, the mother — by her emotional nature — leans toward gentleness and spoiling, and perhaps she thinks that coaxing or kindness will lead to the child's compliance. But she doed not realise that some children are clever and emotionally exploit this to fulfill their desires. In fact, they may resort to various forms of behavioral pressure — such as anger, neglect, threatening to cry, or refusing to eat — if their wishes are not met."

Such behavior may also come from the father, but it is usually less frequent because his nature is generally closer to firmness than that of the mother.

One of the greatest mistakes is when the mother cancels the father’s authority in the eyes of her child, by portraying him in a negative way, or making the child feel that the father has no role to play in upbringing and that he has no authority over the childs wrongdoings. She might say to the child, "Don’t worry, I won’t tell your father" or "I will talk it over with him." Then she puts on the cloak of defending the child when a mistake happens, causing the father to become restricted, and his commands lose their effect

Indeed the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم said: "Each of you is a shepherd, and each of you is responsible for his flock." [Reported by al-Bukhari and Muslim]
Just as the father is responsible for firmness and discipline, the mother is responsible for supporting and enabling this firmness, not opposing it.

How many a mother, driven by compassion, hides her child’s mistakes from her husband or stands between him and disciplining the child, so the child grows up rebellious, knowing no respect for authority and feeling no weight for his mistakes. As he grows older, his stubbornness intensifies, making it difficult to correct him. Often, this cultivational problem is left unnoticed up until the axe has fallen on the head.

So it is a must upon both parents to cooperate and complete each other, not to go against one another, and for each to know the limits of their duties and perform them as they would like their partner to perform theirs. For indeed, Disputing over the nurturing roles is the worst thing that can ruin the children.

Written by: Ash-Shaykh Faysal Al-Hāshidī

https://t.me/f6has/1322

A good opportunity for the teenagers who have good understanding to take advantage of their summer to grow as a Muslim.
A very nice set of lessons to build on their foundation!

Push your teens to attend!

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Our role as elders, parents, uncles, older brothers and teachers is to nurture the youth in the best way possible.

Our children are the seeds, we are the cultivators, we need to make sure the Ummah can harvest the fruits tomorrow.

Look at the state today, and then look at the state of the youth...

How do you see the future of a Ummah who's children's minds are taken by every kind of distraction on social media.

We are internally bleeding and do not feel it. I fear that Allaah will replace us due to our weakness and negligence.

{ هَـٰۤأَنتُمۡ هَـٰۤؤُلَاۤءِ تُدۡعَوۡنَ لِتُنفِقُوا۟ فِی سَبِیلِ ٱللَّهِ فَمِنكُم مَّن یَبۡخَلُۖ وَمَن یَبۡخَلۡ فَإِنَّمَا یَبۡخَلُ عَن نَّفۡسِهِۦۚ وَٱللَّهُ ٱلۡغَنِیُّ وَأَنتُمُ ٱلۡفُقَرَاۤءُۚ وَإِن تَتَوَلَّوۡا۟ یَسۡتَبۡدِلۡ قَوۡمًا غَیۡرَكُمۡ ثُمَّ لَا یَكُونُوۤا۟ أَمۡثَـٰلَكُم }
Behold! You are those who are called to spend in the Cause of Allâh, yet among you are some who are niggardly. And whoever is niggardly, it is only at the expense of his ownself. But Allâh is Rich (Free of all needs), and you (mankind) are poor. And if you turn away (from Islâm and the obedience to Allâh), He will exchange you for some other people and they will not be your likes.
[Surah Muḥammad: 38]


May Allaah rectify us and our children 🤲