Long story short 'زنای همسایه' are just as intelligent and capable (if not more) than the average modern internet dude they just didn't have any of the resources you take for granted and use to be misogynistic, Hami. And that's what the whole og tweet was about to begin with.

Hot take coming through:

The "ideal man" is ~loving and giving~.

Because that's the whole idea of the ancient "father archetype" repeated again and again through different cultures, gods and folklore.

You can't expect men to be selfish psychos all their lives and then suddenly change in a relationship or the moment a child of theirs enters the world. That's not how humans work.

And on a collective level we all know that to be true because look at the prevalence of daddy issues in men and women regardless of generations and class.

Basically this was my reasoning to not engage with men who don't have those simple attributes and to encourage you to do the same.

Just for fyi, when I say "father archetype" it's not about actually having a child or being fertile or suggesting that a man who can't do that isn't a man. It's about the history long answer to "who is a man?" You see some answers change in context of time and place;

We can use some roles like "he's the protector." That answer is not solid among many cultures where that role is shared or even completely done by woman.

If we talk about gender expressions, for example say

"men are people who don't wear makeup, or skirts." You see how we end up excluding middle eastern men or Scottish men?

What about features that have to do with the body?

For example saying "men are the ones with beards."
That excludes many asian and european men.

Or say "men are the ones with more muscle." well in that case we have count incredibly buff Inca women as men which not true.

The only unifying answer for "who is a man?" through history has been the father for better or the worse.

found this in my ss folder

I just want to be hot and know a lot of math

مامانم: میخواستم روز زن رو بهت تبریک بگم اما گفتم الان پیام میدی ', هر روز، روز زنه، مامان.🙄'

من:
:)))) متأسفانه نیست واسه همین روز داره. اما راست میگی احتمالا تشکر می‌کردم و بعدش می‌گفتم 'روز زن مثل روز کودک، روز پناهجویان، روز زمین و روزهای جهانی بیماری ها برای تبریک نیست برای بالابردن آگاهی هستش.'
*مادر موافقت می کند*


/20 دقیقه بعد/

بابام :" راستی روزتون مبارک دخترا❤️ ☺️."

ما: مرسی بابا😂❤️

Also guys please keep in mind
my parents have become 'better' after so many conversations and still say problematic things from time to time.😭 But this was a good step.

I love the shoesss

https://t.me/Adaneth/8215
N ily💜

Here✨✨✨ bc some of you asked for more music in the last Q and A💕

Recently getting into Italian music and I haven't heard a single flop to this day wow.